The reality is that not all divorce or separation can be amicable.
Not all parents can or even should aim to co-parent together. For some couples the best outcome is to sever as many ties as they possibly can – as completely as they can. But this is rarely talked about or understood. Let’s get it out into the open.
If this is your story, you’re not alone. We can still work towards a beautiful life for you and your children. But it’s not going to look like divorces you might have seen or heard about before.
There is hope, but we find it first by being honest about what’s happening right now while it’s hard.
High Conflict separation is not only emotionally draining, it can be financially draining too.
If you are navigating a divorce or separation that feels like a battlefield I can support you to make progress, towards a life that protects and supports you and your children from further hurt. First, we will need to focus your efforts in places they will make the biggest impact. Protect your energy, your resources and your time.
Embark upon Family Vision with me and we will work together towards building your expert team. Me as your Coach, in partnership with respected colleagues who are also experts in their field.
In my little black book are a number of wonderful professionals who excel at their jobs - including experienced family lawyers who can protect you from abuse and manage conflict, Divorce Alchemist Emma Heptonstall (who coaches and supports Ladies Who Leave high conflict relationships) and a wide network of therapists, professional family mediators and lifestyle coaches. If any of these colleagues are a good fit for your situation I’ll make a referral to connect you without delay.
Message me direct at [email protected] if you would like to book a call to discuss your own situation. I offer free 30 minute calls to anyone looking for help to understand if they are experiencing abuse, and will connect you to your local Domestic Abuse agency if required for free.
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