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The Cluster Mothers

The Cluster Mothers Membership

The loss of your partner when you share children can feel like so much more than a break up. The changes involved are greater than anything you may have faced before children were involved. The gruelling reality of parenting alone can hit like a tonne of bricks.

Realising there will be…

  • No other adult at home to support you when you have big decisions to make
  • No one to help with the children when you are at the end of your tether
  • No practical support to manage the work of running a home
  • No second parent helping you manage the impact of children needing sick days or having school commitments that clash with your professional life
  • No back up for even the simple practical challenges like popping out for milk when the kids have gone to bed

…it’s no wonder that the first few months, even the first two to three years, can feel like a huge shock to your whole way of being. 

In truth, the step into single mothering can feel like a step into the abyss. There is so much to learn about mothering alone. Alongside all the practical things you are wrapping your head around, at the same time you must learn to…

  • Work out a new calendar with your ex to share time with your children
  • Learn how to enjoy your time away from your children alone
  • Figure out how to co-parent after the messy emotions of breaking up
  • Navigate legal processes and new financial responsibilities
  • Learn who you want to become as ‘single Mum’, how this will change you as a woman, a professional, a lover, a friend
  • Discover how you will date or have sex with someone new in this strange new world of single-with-kids

If you are reeling from the change in your world, you are not alone!

There is nothing like a tribe of travelling companions to take the loneliness out of parenting alone.

The Cluster Mothers was created to make space for mothers who are stepping into parenting alone to meet, connect, talk about their realities and start taking steps to bring about positive changes at home. The community is hosted by me, Nina Farr. Every month I share a key teaching with the community and host group coaching sessions to support you to set and maintain healthy boundaries, in the toughest of times. The Private Members community is moderated and supported by me personally, with the expert contributions of Helen Champion, Hypnotherapist and Counsellor who joins me live every week to offer therapeutic support.

Cluster Mothers also have instant access to an incredibly library of resources designed to meet you exactly where you are and help you make progress today. There is a mini-course on preparing for Divorce, created by the amazing Emma Heptonstall, former lawyer, family mediator and Divorce Coach. Co-parenting and boundaries bootcamps created by Nina Farr, hypnotherapy downloads for sleep and anxiety from Helen Champion and mini stretch and movement videos by Amanda Clare, Buti Yoga Coach and motherhood guide. Monthly expert interviews are contributed by practicing lawyers, financial advisors and wellbeing professionals - all on hand to help YOU to transition to parenting alone, with ease. 

When you join The Cluster Mothers, you join a community of women who are absolutely committed to helping you parent through the most challenging of times, feeling supported, held, understood and challenged as you grow into this new chapter of life. You will have access to invaluable resources, including:

  • Monthly group coaching sessions with me, Nina Farr
  • Legal Foundations mini-course: Understanding your options in family law, as you move through divorce or family court proceedings 
  • Co-parenting Foundations mini-course: Design your new co-parenting relationship for a calmer and more co-operative start 
  • Buti Yoga to reconnect: mini-workouts to connect you to your emotions, your body and your breath, as you meet change inwards and out
  • Hypnotherapy for healing: Recordings to ease your anxiety, your stress, your sadness or worry. 
  • A weekly Connect Call to dial in and talk to other mothers who are parenting through change, to share experiences, ideas and challenges. Hosted by me, Nina Farr 

Not only are there incredible mini-courses and resources on tap. Nina Farr is available to you LIVE and in person for on-the-spot answers to your questions, in your private closed community group. Cluster Mothers get instant, real-time support when they need it the most. You won't find anything quite like The Cluster Mothers anywhere else! 

There are millions of families out there just like yours. Right now, another mother is making the same changes to her life that you are today. None of you need to do this alone. The magic of women rising up to support women cannot be underestimated.

  • Be held in the love and respect of your peers
  • Check your decisions with a group of sane and supportive Sisters on your path
  • Learn how other mothers are running their homes, claiming their power and stepping boldly into leadership of their families today
  • Be accountable to a loving group of lone parents who want the best for you and your children
  • Know that you won’t be journeying on from here alone

Parenting alone is NOT lonely when you find your tribe. 


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