Author of ‘I am the Parent Who Stayed’ and the Family Vision program for women who parent alone.
Welcome to the home of tailor made coaching for women who want to overcome the overwhelm of parenting alone.
Women who want to raise happy, resilient kids while they set themselves up for future career, relationship and family success.
Choosing to work with a Coach is a big decision. If you're here and looking for support with your family transition, I know it's not a decision you are making lightly. Knowing where to put your resources of time, energy and money can feel like a big risk. I want to help you make the best decision you can for you and your family. I have carefully designed pathways of support for women at all stages of family breakdown, taking into account how much time, energy and financial resource you may have available to you.
If you aren't sure what you can afford to invest, or how you can make the most of the options available here please do book a call with me to talk it through with me HERE. Our first call is always free, we will use the time to get clear on what your needs are and what your goals are going forward. I am committed to you making progress in the best way for you, I will never charge you for taking the time to work out what you need.
Working with me will take you on a journey of self-discovery that allows you to meet yourself with compassion no matter how messy things may be right now. You will learn how to establish healthy boundaries and discover how to take radical responsibility for the next chapter of your life. It's a privilege to walk with you as you journey towards this inner freedom, as well as outer calm.
We all need to know someone is in our corner right now, my commitment to you is to be 100% here in yours. In all cases working with me will also give you access to my amazing community of Mothers who are parenting through change. The uplifting and hilarious, challenging and kind, beautiful Cluster Mothers bring you friendship to carry you alongside the focus I will provide for you. Together we are stronger, and we look forward to welcoming you!
It can be draining: financially, emotionally and physically. Whether you are looking for private, dedicated one to one support, or a community of peers to journey with as you move through changes at home, I've got you covered. Click on the options below to find out how I can help:
I am Nina Farr, qualified and experienced Leadership Coach for women who parent alone. Women just like you, and just like me. I’ve been coaching women who parent alone for eight years.
I’ve written an internationally acclaimed book about it (I am the Parent Who Stayed) and authored a coaching program called ‘Family Vision’ that has had the support of a prestigious UK University and has won sponsorship and support from Big Lottery, national charities. But most importantly – is loved by women who are parenting alone.
My community The Cluster Mothers provides invaluable co-parenting, family law, parenting, wellbeing and therapeutic support to women stepping into single motherhood.
My passion is helping women to re-connect with the fire inside them that family breakdown so often snuffs out with sadness, loss and the weight of responsibility. There is nothing I love more than seeing a mother find her light again, joyfully connect with her children again, and start to see her way forward into a bright, bold and unashamedly BIG future for herself again.
One where financial, emotional and relationship success are all on the table again – without sacrificing any of her dreams for her children.
My mission is to make sure parenting alone isn’t lonely. By supporting women individually and collectively to build networks and communities that help our families to thrive.
When was the last time you prioritised YOU? Meeting your needs, connecting with your dreams, goals and desires. Placing these motivating forces at the front and in the centre of your parenting approach?
Parenting through change and trauma is tough. Your relationships will be under pressure, and this will show up with your children as well as your Ex, and wider networks.
You'll be moving through powerful emotions as we work together and there will be tender space held for your process. But this isn’t relationship therapy or counselling, at the heart of our work we will be building from where you are now and looking ahead.
We won’t focus our time on making sense of how you got here, unless it’s to help us figure out exactly where you are going. But there will be time and opportunity to understand your story - the building blocks of how your childhood, adolescence and adulthood have created your reality now.
It's important to commit to getting to know yourself, to be willing to honestly show up for what comes next. When you do, working with me is a road map to stepping into parenting deeply connected with the Mum you want to be, the family life you want to experience, and the personal and professional life you are still passionate about building alongside.
Are you ready?
"I feel in control of my life now, confident in my ability to make the right choices, free of the limiting beliefs I had brought with me from my marriage. I'm more connected to my kids - they've loved being part of the work. It's really strengthened our team and brought the three of us closer together so we are all stronger individually and collectively. I can't recommend it highly enough. "
"It was totally uplifting. The things I learned will stay with us on the rest of our life journey. I really looked at my life, my home, the way I present myself and how I parent my children. If you want to feel strong again then you should definitely do it! "
"YAY, feeling proud of myself!* 22 days into the Boundaries challenge with Nina Farr and over the last couple of days I've completed the first two challenges AND filled in the workbook - all of which i've found incredibly useful. It's shifted something in me where I was feeling really stuck. Loving the bite size chunks. Challenge 3 begins tomorrow. Nina Farr thanks for your enthusiasm, your passion, your belief that we can do this, your support, your guidance, your vision. Many of your wise words/quotes will become mantras for me and i've jotted them down in the front of my diary to refer to any time i'm need of gentle reminder.THANK YOU."
"I joined the Cluster Mothers when I found myself with a newborn, unexpectedly single. Trying to deal with a very estranged relationship with my ex that led to a complex court case. I have found the community and support here invaluable and can't recommend it enough to any single Mama I meet. Whether it's asking for advice on the live calls, or on posts, swapping funny stories and tips with other Mammas or asking for specific help from Nina and her team - finally I've found a community where i feel supported, welcomed and understood. The other Mamas here get it - more than my friends ever could. It's also a positive online space to be in. Prior to joining, I used to stand on the outskirts of mother and baby groups. No-one knew my story or that I was scared, alone and needed help. I believed I had to be, and do, everything for my daughter on my own. Fortunately that's no longer the case and now i will proudly say I am a single parent and shout the loudest when I need help. I'm facing a new stage in life where I now share some care of my daughter with my previously abusive ex - and with that comes a lot of fuckery too. However, with the work I've done with ladies in The Cluster Mothers on Boundaries, taking care of myself and leading the parenting in my own home I am confident that I can get through that, and whatever other unexpected new shit comes my way too!"
The parents I work with are doing amazing things. Alongside raising families, they are building businesses, campaigning and more. Come and read their stories on my blog. I also blog about my own life, family and journey as a lone parent of three.Read more
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